Life with Girlfriend

Recently I just went for a short getaway in Genting with my uni mates. However, one of them whom is not single did not came along with us because his girlfriend was around in KL. Well, I'm not sure whether he did asked for permission or what but anyhow, he stayed in KL. This reminds me of the old days of me having a girlfriend, where my life was pretty much about my girlfriend and I had not much time with my guy friends.

Just imagine that you can't go out yumcha, pool, or anything at all. Maybe the occasional party that both girlfriend and you are able to attend. I don't know if there is another way of saying this, it takes away lots of the fun out of a 21 years old guy's life. Its like buying a computer which has no graphic card and no internet connection. You can't play any games. You can go on Facebook but its gonna be slow. You can't even watch HD movies.

No women shall deprive a man's desire to slaughter endless waves of zerglings!

Having said that, I'm sure there are tonnes of fun moments with the girlfriend. Kinky ones are the most probable one. hahaha. Ain't it? But everything got to have a degree of freedom. Even in physics and things in our daily lives have a certain degree of freedom. Although is a different of freedom but you get what I mean. Men wants space for himself. Its a fact. However, some will stray away but some will stay. So trust is ever so important, if there is none. Forget about everything and just play Starcraft 2!

Now that I'm single, I got lots of free time now. Way too much free time in fact. On the plus side, I can do as I please. But there is only so much that people can do in Malaysia. Nothing much to be honest. I'm staying in the wrong country. Nothing near me is nice to be photograph. Well, my passion is in landscape and KL aint much of a looker, the closest and nicest beach is towards the east coast. I should be living in New Zealand or Japan but the food in Malaysia is heaven. Can't leave just yet. XD

Back to the topic. Having a girlfriend is a commitment and not all 21 years old guys will be doing that because guys just dont want to be tied down until they are willing to do so. Having a girlfriend is also sacrifice. Shall not go into that. All these applies to the girl too but girls are more likely to commit than the guy which is a big problem when it comes to relationship. Both to need give and take, aye?

So for the time being, I will be not available to anyone. Not that I'm attached to anyone but I'm attached to my camera and its a good thing. :D